How to prepare for a satisfactory pegging?

Communication

There are many myths and negative beliefs linked to pegging. Especially regarding the sexual orientation of men who like this type of stimulation.

The desire to enjoy the pleasure that comes from the stimulation of the anus and the prostate, has nothing in common with sexual orientation.

Pegging is not only a physical pleasure, but also a mental one, because it focuses on the inversion of stereotyped roles in the bedroom.

In this case, the active man who penetrates is replaced by the active woman who penetrates him and takes control of his partner’s pleasure.

The most difficult thing to start with pegging is to break the cultural stereotypes and beliefs that link the belonging of these sexual practices to a gender or sexual orientation.

We believe that pleasure is for everyone.

pegging sex

Pegging requires good preparation. The first step should be a sincere conversation between the lovers. Discussing needs and concerns before introducing something new into the bedroom should be the key to our sex life.

Both must be open to the introduction of pegging to their sexual repertoire.

Small Steps

The anus of man has to be prepared correctly for new experiences. The best method is participation in other types of anal games, for example;

  • a massage of the external parts of the anus
  • rimming (anal stimulation with the mouth and tongue)
  • a gentle penetration with the fingers.

Also through the introduction to the bedroom of small anal plugs. You should never start pegging with a strap-on dildo. Since the anus is the human “exit” and will not become the “entrance” in a single day.

These treatments are intended to accustom the partner’s anus to the presence, we emphasize, to a pleasant presence, of something that will be inside.

What is needed in this, is delicacy and a large amount of lubricant that never remains during intercourse. Man is the one who has to say when he is ready to introduce something bigger.

Hygiene

Many people who start their adventure with anal stimulation are concerned about hygiene. This is wrong anyway! The rectum, during stimulation of pegging, or during anal sex, does not function as storage.

The excrement only passes through it. If you have a diet rich in fiber and there are no problems to evacuate, there should be no unpleasant surprises.

Before the anal games, you have to wash the rectum only with soap and water, or during the wash, you must slide your finger towards the anus to wash this part from the inside.

People who want to be one hundred percent sure, can resort to warm water enemas or herbal tea. It is worth having a cleaner for the gadgets, or a few wipes for intimate hygiene.

Size

The first dildo for pegging should not be big. We recommend those that have a diameter of less than 3.5 – 4 centimeters and have a simple shape.

The dildo for anal penetration, must have a base that not only allows the device to be placed on the harness, but also avoids the absorption of the dildo by the anus.

You can find Strap-On Without Straps, which is ideal for beginner lovers and, in addition, does not require a harness. When choosing a harness, look at its diameter, so that the hoop that holds it fits the diameter of the contraption.

pegging dildo

Also, when using the dildo, pay attention to the curvature that stimulates the prostate gland, so that it is towards the belly of the couple and not towards his back.

The prostate gland, almost the same as point G in the case of women, requires a stimulation at the moment in which people are face to face.

Putting the contraption upside down can be unpleasant for man.

Pegging does not cause pain, but everything should be done step by step

For many women, the new and elegant penis is very exciting. Sometimes it happens that during the first attempts of pegging, they exaggerate with the rhythm and with the depth of the penetration.

Therefore, we strongly advise that the man be up and control the mentioned factors so that the game does not end with pain or sphincter damage.

When penetrating the couple, you have to pay attention to the signals you give us and, from time to time, make sure that everything is fine.

At first the best positions are:

  • The cowboy, that is, when the woman is lying down and the man is going down with the dildo (face to face or face to the foot of the couple).
  • The sitting position when the woman is in the armchair and the man takes her.
  • The spoon, that is, when the couple is lying down.
  • The doggy, with the man on all fours and the woman controlling the rhythm and depth of the penetration.
  • The missionary, the man must gather the knees against the abdomen, giving access to the anus to his partner.